THE 2 DRAINING EMOTIONS... Part 1 of 2
I've recently come home from a 30 day
Why do most people tend to be stuck and don't seem to ever make it in their Network Marketing business or in anything for that matter, I could write an entire book, create an entire audio set, and an entire 8-hour seminar on this topic alone -- in fact, I probably will -- But for now, let me give you what I believe are two of the most draining emotions on the planet that significantly contributes to preventing people from more effortlessly taking the action necessary to create Million Dollar Results in life:
DRAINING EMOTION#1: GUILT... I noticed when I'm having conversations with some of the thousands of people I train and coach each year that Guilt is embedded in a lot of their language. They feel as if they should be farther in life than where they are and since they aren't, they feel Guilty about it. They feel Guilty for something they've done or didn't do in the past. This feeling of Guilt from the past obviously immobilizes their actions in the present.
Guilt from the past is something that immobilizes the actions of the present.
Why? Because when we allow Guilt to creep in and dominate our lives, we have a tendency to automatically sign up for Suffering... Have you noticed that? People who are stuck in Guilt tend to constantly suffer and I'll tell you that there's no mobility in suffering.
Here's the sad part. Misery loves company. In other words, people who are caught up with there own issues of Guilt tend to do their best to use it as a tool to drag other people down to their pathetic existence of pain and suffering. Getting caught up in the Game of Guilt is not fun and it's definitely not pleasing, productive, or profitable. It is one of the biggest wastes of emotional energy that exists. When you feel Guilty, you don't feel Love, Abundance, and Peace of Mind. You typically feel Unworthiness, Embarrassment, and Shame. Guilt is one of the quickest ways to diminish your self-worth, self-confidence, and self-esteem. And these three (Self-Worth, Self-Confidence, and Self-Esteem) are absolutely critical for creating the Success you Desire and Deserve.
Ok, so you made a mistake. You did something you're not so proud of. You lied to someone. You didn't follow through on a promise you made. You did something that you would like to take back. Yes, yes, we all do Stupid things from time to time. However, what has been done has been done. Simply ask yourself this: "Is there anything I can do now to fix the situation that happened then?" If yes, then go ahead and do it. If not, then ask yourself this: "What actions can I take right now that will assist me in not repeating that same mistake over again?"
Now, go ahead and take some steps toward that end. Good grief, what in the world is continuing to feel guilty about "it" going to do for you? Nothing... Feeling Guilty about "it", whatever that "it" is will only frustrate and immobilize you. It's ok to let yourself learn from the "mistake" or "mishap" but keep in mind that no amount of guilt is going to do anything for the betterment of your present and future. Here's the bottom line... Harboring Guilt will keep you broke and your life will suck. Sometimes the best way to hold on is to let go...
In Part 2 of this Article, we will cover the 2nd Draining Emotion that holds people back and what we can do to ensure that we're not a victim of it...
Until next time...
GO, GO, GO!!!
Jerry "DRhino" Clark