7 Destructive Habits of Highly UNsuccessful People
WARNING! If you would like to live in your very own
NUMBER 1 – They get “Hung” by their own Tongue…
They are constantly thinking or speaking lack and disempowerment into their reality, and the interesting thing is that most of the time they don't even realize they are doing it… The reason for this is because disempowerment has become engrained in their consciousness… In other words, it's – unfortunately – become a way of being for them…
These are the people who can be looking directly at an opportunity, but instantly see nothing but problems because via their constant negativity, they have developed a “Problem” Consciousness…
NUMBER 2 -- They are Chronic Complainers…
They complain that the sun is too hot… They complain that it's been raining for too long… They complain that there's no rainbow… They complain that the wind is messing up their hair… They complain about their Spouses, their Children, their Parents, their Church, their Government, and on and on… They will even complain about you…
That's right, present an opportunity that could possibly revolutionize their life and they will complain that you are just money hungry… Oh, did I mention that the very same day, they will complain that they don't have enough money…
NUMBER 3 – They are Unrationally Paranoid…
They think that everything and everyone is against them.
Every little bit of difficulty is taken way out of proportion and exaggerated to the point of tragedy. They regard failures as catastrophes. They become discouraged easily instead of learning from their mistakes.
They never seem to move forward because they're always afraid
to expand their comfort zones. (After all, if they expand their “Comfort Bubble” their viewpoint is that someone else will simply come along and “Pop it” anyway so what's the use)… They don't tend to realize that their comfort zones have tendency to become their failure zones…
NUMBER 4– They are “Blabber Mouths”…
In other words, they talk much more than they listen…
They want to be the “Issue” (i.e. star of the show). So they always engage in talks that would make them appear to be heroes, even to the point of degrading others and lying to themselves…
When other people advise them, they close their ears because they are often too proud to admit their mistakes… This type of pride typically keeps them broke, busted, and disgusted…
In their mind they're always correct. As a result of their low self-image, they often times reject suggestions because that will make them feel inferior… You've heard it said many times – “They would rather be Right than Rich”…
NUMBER 5 - They are “Miserable” and they are looking for “Company”…
In other words, they try to bring people down to their level…
People who are Consistently UNsuccessful and are apparently deciding to stay that way (whether consciously or unconsciously) envy successful individuals.
Instead of learning from them or putting in the “smart” and “hard” work that successful people have put in, UNsuccessful people find it easier to criticize, despise, spread rumors, and try every dirty trick to bring them down.
If they would nicely ask the “successful” people for assistance and demonstrate that they were sincere about it and willing to take action – the successful people would be more than happy to give them some counsel. But no, it goes back to them being too proud to ask for advice. Moreover -- as you would recall -- they're negative mindset has them focused on the problem instead of the solution…
It's easier for them to be contented with eating junk food, getting drunk, watching TV, or worse, staring at the blank wall with no thoughts whatsoever to improve their lives while hoping they would come across (or convert) other hopeless souls to join them in their “Misery”.
NUMBER 6 - They are “Wimps”…
In other words, they are always seeking the “magical” instant “pill” that will relieve them of having to actually experience “Life” in the “Jungle” in an effort to make it to their very own “
If there are two roads to choose from, Highly UNsuccessful people would choose the wider road with less rewards than the narrower road with much better rewards at the end. (i.e. a Job rather than Network marketing – or playing Victim rather than playing Victorious)…
They don't want any hardships. They simply want to get Wealthy, Healthy, and Wise without (Emotionally, Spiritually, and Psychologically) “Fighting” for it…
If only they would be willing to “Fight” for their dreams, they would
have a much better chance at the “title”...
This, of course, leads to the 7th Destructive Habit…
NUMBER 7 - They Give Up Easily
Successful people treat failures as stepping stones to success.
UNsuccessful people have a tendency to call it quits upon recognizing the first signs of “failure” -- what I actually view as “temporary set backs”… (Wow! that was a big Clue right there)…
At first, they may be excited to start an endeavor. But then
they lose interest fairly quickly, especially when they
encounter set backs and when they realize it's not as “easy” as they had hoped for...
Then they go & search for a new opportunity that would be much “Easier”… However, they often times end up with the same story & same results… Many of them get to the point to where they will take their “Unexpressed Land of Paradise” with them to their graves…
And… The World will never even know they had existed…
So… How do you join the ranks of those of us who have made it to our very own “
You simply look examine the 7 Habits of Highly Unsuccessful people that we have just discussed… And… You do the Exact Opposite…
Go, Go, Go!!!
DRhino
P.S. Of course there are more than 7 Destructive Habits of Highly Unsuccessful people; however, break through these and you are well on your way to Success which is far beyond your wildest imagination…